I'm trying to discern what's good and what's better.
I love big environments, lots of people coming together. There's obviously a sense of success and significance in it.
Our gathering this past week-end was a good turn out - it felt... good.
Flipside, an event we run for kids in our community and church, is something I love to see take place, especially when I see more kids and newer faces. When that happens, it feels... good.
But I wonder, what's... better?
When my (smaller) community group meets together and I notice people connecting on a deeper level, discerning how to support each other in mission and serve each other when needed - that excites me.
Both environments are good, is one is better?
Both environments are needed, is one more of a fulfillment of our vision?
Both are good, is the big one successful when it funnels towards real life change and community life?
Last Friday, 2 young female leaders in our church got five 11-13 year old's together. They call them the Jr Leaders for Flipside (the event I mentioned above which is for 5+ age group, where the 11+ kids are starting to serve, not only participate).
This small group of tweens hung out, laughed, got to know each other better, went through some scripture and interactively learned about using their passions to serve others. All in the same evening. The start of discipleship.
I have a feeling this was a 'better' kind of thing.
The rubber meets the road when mentoring takes place, relationships are built, growth happens, vision is imparted.
We/I got to figure out what's not only good, but better - in life, family, and ministry,
Where in your life, ministry, or work do you see the better vs. the good?
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Monday, February 13, 2012
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Trees and Streams
Psalms 1 describes a certain kind of person. A person who is...
Imagine if part of our vision for life would be to become this kind of person:
Life-Giving-Restorative Person.
A person who...
...Blesses others
...Injects life into people around us
...Nurtures people
...Gives hope
...Contributes to the well being of those in his/her life
Does your spouse feel this about you? Are your friends better off because of you or thankful for you? Is your community getting an injection of life because you live there? Have you contributed to the well being of someone in your church recently?
This person doesn't happen by accident. Like the tree, they are intentionally located near streams.
Fruit trees don't grow by accident. They grow naturally, but only if they are nourished. This tree was located near an irrigation canal that constantly fed it.
To be honest, the GOAL is BECOMING, the means are the STREAMS.
The goal of a fruit tree is fruit, but the means aren't fruit, it's the streams.
STREAM SUGGESTIONS:
...Communion with God.
...Spiritual Community with Christ followers.
...Rest.
...Reflection.
...Practicing Generosity and Servanthood.
As you're reflecting on what kind of 2012 you'd like to have, and more importantly, what kind of person you'd like to become, consider the following.
DO I WANT TO BECOME A LIFE-GIVING-RESTORATIVE-PERSON?
ARE THERE STREAMS IN MY LIFE THAT WILL NURTURE ME TOWARDS THIS?
WHAT STREAMS MUST I PUT IN PLACE TO NURTURE ME TOWARDS THIS?
(are there things in my schedule prohibiting me from including a healthy stream?)
* you can use this idea with other goals in your life (go ahead, it's helpful), however the psalm writer seems to believe that one of the more important visions for life the vision in 1:3
…like a TREE planted by STREAMS of water,Wisdom literature (e.g. psalms and proverbs) often use a 'tree' as an image for wisdom. You'll also see the combination of 'wisdom' and 'tree of life' used to describe someone who is life-giving or restorative (e.g. Proverbs 3:18; 11:30; 15:4).
which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither—
whatever they do prospers.
Imagine if part of our vision for life would be to become this kind of person:
Life-Giving-Restorative Person.
A person who...
...Blesses others
...Injects life into people around us
...Nurtures people
...Gives hope
...Contributes to the well being of those in his/her life
Does your spouse feel this about you? Are your friends better off because of you or thankful for you? Is your community getting an injection of life because you live there? Have you contributed to the well being of someone in your church recently?
This person doesn't happen by accident. Like the tree, they are intentionally located near streams.
Fruit trees don't grow by accident. They grow naturally, but only if they are nourished. This tree was located near an irrigation canal that constantly fed it.
E.G. Eccl. 2:5 I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. 6 I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees.If you want to become this Life-Giving-Restorative Person, what kind of streams have you included in your life to help you grow into this?
To be honest, the GOAL is BECOMING, the means are the STREAMS.
The goal of a fruit tree is fruit, but the means aren't fruit, it's the streams.
STREAMS GROW THE TREES
TREES YIELD FRUIT
TREES YIELD FRUIT
STREAM SUGGESTIONS:
...Communion with God.
...Spiritual Community with Christ followers.
...Rest.
...Reflection.
...Practicing Generosity and Servanthood.
As you're reflecting on what kind of 2012 you'd like to have, and more importantly, what kind of person you'd like to become, consider the following.
DO I WANT TO BECOME A LIFE-GIVING-RESTORATIVE-PERSON?
ARE THERE STREAMS IN MY LIFE THAT WILL NURTURE ME TOWARDS THIS?
WHAT STREAMS MUST I PUT IN PLACE TO NURTURE ME TOWARDS THIS?
(are there things in my schedule prohibiting me from including a healthy stream?)
* you can use this idea with other goals in your life (go ahead, it's helpful), however the psalm writer seems to believe that one of the more important visions for life the vision in 1:3
Sunday, December 04, 2011
Disadvantage to advantage
As we wrapped up a series on Justice this morning at Westside we focused on the early church and then how we can do justice today. We highlighted how the church was able to do justice and hovered around 3 main ideas:
Awareness: you can never meet someone's need unless you're aware of it.
Sacrifice: needs will not be met without sacrifice
Overflow: the church not only met needs among them but also around them
The biggest challenge I left with was the idea of sacrifice.
Sacrifice is putting yourself at a disadvantage for the advantage of others.
I withhold something I want to meet someone's need.
I take time from my day to help someone else
I buy less Christmas gifts or none to build a well in Africa
I reduce my budget to sponsor mission and compassion projects
At a corporate level this might mean that pay scale and benefits are given at the cost of the management or vp salaries.
Mondragon, a Coop Corporation highlighted in the notes of Tim Keller's book, Generous Justice, apparently doesn't allow the top employees to make more than 5x than the bottom ones. They also give 10% of profits to community development. Interesting (I'm only quoting this as an example not as a rule or best practice, but it does demonstrate the principle of disadvantage for another's advantage)
Compare that with a 178$ Liz Claiborne jacket that costs .77 to make (another eg from Keller's book)
This is the reverse: advantage at someone else's disadvantage.
This call to act justly, whether its helping a friend who's lost their job, providing food for a family in my church, meeting a local need, taking the time to help a person get on their feet, or rescuing a child from sex trafficking for 4500$ - it all requires sacrifice. It means putting myself at a disadvantage to advantage someone else.
How are you challenged by this?
Do you see anyone living like this regularly?
How can we make steps toward this?
Does the gospel produce this kind of desire?
Awareness: you can never meet someone's need unless you're aware of it.
Sacrifice: needs will not be met without sacrifice
Overflow: the church not only met needs among them but also around them
The biggest challenge I left with was the idea of sacrifice.
Sacrifice is putting yourself at a disadvantage for the advantage of others.
I withhold something I want to meet someone's need.
I take time from my day to help someone else
I buy less Christmas gifts or none to build a well in Africa
I reduce my budget to sponsor mission and compassion projects
At a corporate level this might mean that pay scale and benefits are given at the cost of the management or vp salaries.
Mondragon, a Coop Corporation highlighted in the notes of Tim Keller's book, Generous Justice, apparently doesn't allow the top employees to make more than 5x than the bottom ones. They also give 10% of profits to community development. Interesting (I'm only quoting this as an example not as a rule or best practice, but it does demonstrate the principle of disadvantage for another's advantage)
Compare that with a 178$ Liz Claiborne jacket that costs .77 to make (another eg from Keller's book)
This is the reverse: advantage at someone else's disadvantage.
This call to act justly, whether its helping a friend who's lost their job, providing food for a family in my church, meeting a local need, taking the time to help a person get on their feet, or rescuing a child from sex trafficking for 4500$ - it all requires sacrifice. It means putting myself at a disadvantage to advantage someone else.
How are you challenged by this?
Do you see anyone living like this regularly?
How can we make steps toward this?
Does the gospel produce this kind of desire?
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
even there???? (gospel impact)
Do you ever feel like NO ONE is interested in God or the gospel?
Does it seem like NO ONE in your family will ever open up to the gospel?
Maybe you wonder if the gospel will penetrate your own life, marriage, home, heart?
A 1st century church in Philippi probably thought the same thing. Paul's letter to them (Philippians) reminded them that God's work started in them would come to completion (1:6). Paul challenged them to live their faith out in life and practice, to see themselves as citizens of heaven (chap 1-2).
But what about the gospel really making an impact around them?
Paul's last line in this letter must have floored them.
"the believers in Caesar's House send you greeting" (Phil. 4:22)
WHAT? WHO? IS THIS POSSIBLE?
Employees in Caesar's (Nero's) own empire are following Jesus!!! How did this happen?
Paul does mention that news of Jesus was spreading to the guards (1:13).
Imagine in a context where ROME's rule and influence - Caesar's power - touched every aspect of life (politics, economy, family, lifestyle, values, religion). YET, even there, the gospel got through.
THE GOSPEL GOT THROUGH. It penetrated. The result?? People within Caesar's house are now following Jesus.
If they can do it, the Philippians can do it. If they can do it, we can do it.
Because God's spirit empowers believers to love and serve God in any culture and circumstance. God's spirit can woo anyone, anywhere, towards Jesus - and reveal God to them.
Can the gospel penetrate your marriage? YES
Can it penetrate your neighborhood? YES
Your co-worker? YES
What about you? YES
If it broke through Caesar's house and transformed people there, I have a wonderful hope that it can even do that in me, and you, and our city.
GREATER THINGS ARE YET TO COME...
Does it seem like NO ONE in your family will ever open up to the gospel?
Maybe you wonder if the gospel will penetrate your own life, marriage, home, heart?
A 1st century church in Philippi probably thought the same thing. Paul's letter to them (Philippians) reminded them that God's work started in them would come to completion (1:6). Paul challenged them to live their faith out in life and practice, to see themselves as citizens of heaven (chap 1-2).
But what about the gospel really making an impact around them?
Paul's last line in this letter must have floored them.
"the believers in Caesar's House send you greeting" (Phil. 4:22)
WHAT? WHO? IS THIS POSSIBLE?
Employees in Caesar's (Nero's) own empire are following Jesus!!! How did this happen?
Paul does mention that news of Jesus was spreading to the guards (1:13).
Imagine in a context where ROME's rule and influence - Caesar's power - touched every aspect of life (politics, economy, family, lifestyle, values, religion). YET, even there, the gospel got through.
THE GOSPEL GOT THROUGH. It penetrated. The result?? People within Caesar's house are now following Jesus.
If they can do it, the Philippians can do it. If they can do it, we can do it.
Because God's spirit empowers believers to love and serve God in any culture and circumstance. God's spirit can woo anyone, anywhere, towards Jesus - and reveal God to them.
Can the gospel penetrate your marriage? YES
Can it penetrate your neighborhood? YES
Your co-worker? YES
What about you? YES
If it broke through Caesar's house and transformed people there, I have a wonderful hope that it can even do that in me, and you, and our city.
GREATER THINGS ARE YET TO COME...
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Contentment through the Gospel
I'm not sure if any message in scripture can be this simple, but after teaching through Philippians 4:10-19 this past Sunday at Westside, this infographic is stuck in my mind. So here's a crack at it.
Is is helpful? Any thing to add or comment on?
Is is helpful? Any thing to add or comment on?
Monday, May 30, 2011
Stand Firm
"Stand Firm in the Lord in this way" (Phil. 3:21)
In what Way?
As Citizens of Heaven who know Jesus will one day return and transform our bodies into a glorious body like his.
In the way that ANTICIPATES RESTORATION.
...that waits for NEW CREATION
BUT, in the mean time live like we are an OUTPOST of Heaven.
...reflecting heaven on earth
...demonstrate the values of God's Kingdom through our lives
...answering Jesus' prayer that God's kingdom would come on earth
Stand Firm?
It's not easy to live this way in a culture that ranges anywhere from uninterested in Jesus to enemies of the cross (Phil. 3:18)
Sometimes it feels like Moses and the Israelites in front of the Red Sea with the Egyptians behind them.
A friend of mine after Westside's gathering yesterday reminded me of Moses' words to them:
Stand firm and watch God do his work of salvation for you today. (Ex. 14:13, The Message)
What great inspiration to live as Citizens of Heaven.
Stand firm - as Citizens of Heaven - in our world - regardless of what's behind us or ahead of us - anticipating God's work of salvation for you today, and into eternity.
Saturday, May 21, 2011
HOUSE PARTIES
Westside is trying to spark some house parties this month.
3-4 of them have popped up.
What's the big deal about a house party? Well, it gets people together. It gives people a chance to say hi, get to know someone new, or get to know someone better. We get to try some different food.
Meals and parties or sitting around tables or livings rooms have been the heart of families and communities for centuries. Stuff just happens when people hang out for an undetermined amount of time or an undetermined reason.
I think God has something to do with that.
I think God smiles when this happens.
He's created us for relationship, so relationship must give him joy in seeing his creation… relate.
I'll let you know how our party goes this Saturday.
3-4 of them have popped up.
What's the big deal about a house party? Well, it gets people together. It gives people a chance to say hi, get to know someone new, or get to know someone better. We get to try some different food.
Meals and parties or sitting around tables or livings rooms have been the heart of families and communities for centuries. Stuff just happens when people hang out for an undetermined amount of time or an undetermined reason.
I think God has something to do with that.
I think God smiles when this happens.
He's created us for relationship, so relationship must give him joy in seeing his creation… relate.
I'll let you know how our party goes this Saturday.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Gospel Shaped Life = contrast??
Currently walking through Philippians at Westside, we arrived at 1:27 that says: Above all, you must live as citizens of heaven, conducting yourselves in a manner worthy of the Good News about Christ.
This speaks of ORDERING YOUR LIFE AROUND THE GOSPEL - living in such a way that your life reflects, expresses, communicates, breathes out the gospel of Jesus.
Paul later highlights that this kind of life can bring on suffering (as he and the Philippian church was experiencing). They were suffering b/c of their faith in Jesus. Some aspects of their life as Christ followers became a contrast to their culture and therefore created hostility towards them. (They thought of themselves more as heavenly citizens in their city than Roman citizens in Philippi)
1:29 is a tough verse: For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him,...
It's a privilege not only to believe in Jesus, but to suffer for him. Following Christ includes the gift of belief and suffering.
I've been stuck in thinking of ways we in North America suffer for Christ. For the most part, we don't lose our jobs or purchasing power, we don't lose friends or family (some might). Of course honoring Christ might create less financial success in some areas or less popularity among some crowds.
The rest of Philippians gives us examples of the kind of contrast a gospel life might demonstrate in our culture. For now, maybe we can start here - with Jesus words in Matthew 5 - of how to SHAPE/ORDER our lives around the gospel. Maybe this kind of life is more of a contrast in our Western context. What do you think?
This speaks of ORDERING YOUR LIFE AROUND THE GOSPEL - living in such a way that your life reflects, expresses, communicates, breathes out the gospel of Jesus.
Paul later highlights that this kind of life can bring on suffering (as he and the Philippian church was experiencing). They were suffering b/c of their faith in Jesus. Some aspects of their life as Christ followers became a contrast to their culture and therefore created hostility towards them. (They thought of themselves more as heavenly citizens in their city than Roman citizens in Philippi)
1:29 is a tough verse: For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him,...
It's a privilege not only to believe in Jesus, but to suffer for him. Following Christ includes the gift of belief and suffering.
I've been stuck in thinking of ways we in North America suffer for Christ. For the most part, we don't lose our jobs or purchasing power, we don't lose friends or family (some might). Of course honoring Christ might create less financial success in some areas or less popularity among some crowds.
The rest of Philippians gives us examples of the kind of contrast a gospel life might demonstrate in our culture. For now, maybe we can start here - with Jesus words in Matthew 5 - of how to SHAPE/ORDER our lives around the gospel. Maybe this kind of life is more of a contrast in our Western context. What do you think?
3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek,
for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful,
for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
When you lighten things up too much.
This morning I was speaking at Westside Gathering in a series called, Why Work?
It's been a tough series for me to teach. Not because there's not enough to say about work, but mainly because there too much to say. Even more so because as I teach I'm feeling the struggle that some people have with their jobs. And though it would be easy to inspire, pump up, and challenge people to do what they love, change the world, find a job that fits your strengths - sometimes, at least for a season - that's not always possible.
But this post isn't about the struggle, it's about something I did because of the struggle.
I opened up the end of the talk for Q&A to allow people to share the tension that arises with what the scriptures teach about work. To share openly the specific situations the scriptures might not emphasize, but are still work related and need spiritual discernment to work through.
So as people are sharing, I'd often lighten up their comment - a little joke, a quick remark, fun sarcasm, etc. It was all in good fun and made for some good discussion, and honestly didn't stop anyone from sharing. But as I reflected about it, I wonder if maybe I belittled someone's experience, someone's situation, someone's struggle or question. I know my church and they know me, and we both know each other well enough to joke around and be down to earth with each other. But the question still lingers in me - did I lighten it up too much?
Is there moments we need to be more mindful of the heartfelt openness of someone when they're sharing, to know that the best thing to do is listen and not respond?
Any thoughts?
TO LISTEN TO THE SERIES GO HERE.
It's been a tough series for me to teach. Not because there's not enough to say about work, but mainly because there too much to say. Even more so because as I teach I'm feeling the struggle that some people have with their jobs. And though it would be easy to inspire, pump up, and challenge people to do what they love, change the world, find a job that fits your strengths - sometimes, at least for a season - that's not always possible.
But this post isn't about the struggle, it's about something I did because of the struggle.
I opened up the end of the talk for Q&A to allow people to share the tension that arises with what the scriptures teach about work. To share openly the specific situations the scriptures might not emphasize, but are still work related and need spiritual discernment to work through.
So as people are sharing, I'd often lighten up their comment - a little joke, a quick remark, fun sarcasm, etc. It was all in good fun and made for some good discussion, and honestly didn't stop anyone from sharing. But as I reflected about it, I wonder if maybe I belittled someone's experience, someone's situation, someone's struggle or question. I know my church and they know me, and we both know each other well enough to joke around and be down to earth with each other. But the question still lingers in me - did I lighten it up too much?
Is there moments we need to be more mindful of the heartfelt openness of someone when they're sharing, to know that the best thing to do is listen and not respond?
Any thoughts?
TO LISTEN TO THE SERIES GO HERE.
Monday, January 24, 2011
This Monday Morning... Your Work Matters
When you sit at your desk
Turn the fork lift on
Write that email
Call in your employees
Wash your dishes
Dress your baby
Call your client
Unpack your tool box
Study for the exam
Welcome your students to class
Sit in the meeting
Mix the cement
Finalize the order
Pack the kids lunch
Fix the network problems
Remember that God put you in that garden to work it and take care of it (Gen 2:15)
How will you work today knowing you will reflect his image through your work?
Turn the fork lift on
Write that email
Call in your employees
Wash your dishes
Dress your baby
Call your client
Unpack your tool box
Study for the exam
Welcome your students to class
Sit in the meeting
Mix the cement
Finalize the order
Pack the kids lunch
Fix the network problems
Remember that God put you in that garden to work it and take care of it (Gen 2:15)
How will you work today knowing you will reflect his image through your work?
Friday, January 07, 2011
Relational Rocks in 2011
As we continue our ROCKS for New Year series on the blog, let's focus on RELATIONSHIP.
I guess everyone might have different key relationships they focus on that is healthy. As a Christian mine go like this: Jesus, Family, Friends, Others.
I say that with some hesitation b/c I want to be the kind of person that is available to everybody - b/c I believe I'm put in my world for a reason. However, I've come to realize that I won't be great help to my neighbors or co-workers or even a homeless person on the street unless I truly love God, my family, and my friends well - otherwise I'd be hypocritical.
What ROCKS/priorities will help you with relationships? What must you put down FIRST in your calendar and commitments?
TIME.
I need to set aside time for the important relationships in my life.
Time = Value
Time = Importance
Time = Love and Appreciation
What does time look like? For me (out side of a relationship with God which I mentioned in the previous post)
FAMILY
Open evenings with little planned with my family around.
Meal times together consistently
Vacations set through out the year - even a simple day trip counts
Serving each other when a need arises
Date night (if you're married or engaged)
FRIENDS
Friends night - people over for supper
Saying yes when friends invite you over
Available to help from time to time (within reason)
Activities together
NEIGHBORS
Outside porch with nothing to do but spontaneously talk to a neighbor or invite them to sit with you for a drink
Scheduling a dinner party or BBQ in advance
Available to help them from time to time
To keep these as ROCKS and not let them fill your life up too fast I suggest giving yourself some priorities
- Weekly Family Night
- 2-3 Nights with little planned
- Monthly Friends Night
- Monthly Date Night
- Yearly Vacation
- Periodic Day Trips
- join a small group at church
- commit to participating in your church's next potluck or social activity
- Monthly New Person Night (neighbor, new person at church, some needing company)
Of course that means letting some demands on you wait a few weeks. It means making sure these come 1st not last. It means, like all priorities in your life, saying yes to some means saying no to others.
WHAT OTHER WAYS DO YOU PUT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS FIRST? HOW HAVE YOU HAD TO SAY NO TO OTHER REQUESTS AS A RESULT? WHICH RELATIONSHIPS COME FIRST FOR YOU? HOW DO YOU BALANCE THE FAMILY/FRIEND/NEIGHBOR TENSION?
I guess everyone might have different key relationships they focus on that is healthy. As a Christian mine go like this: Jesus, Family, Friends, Others.
I say that with some hesitation b/c I want to be the kind of person that is available to everybody - b/c I believe I'm put in my world for a reason. However, I've come to realize that I won't be great help to my neighbors or co-workers or even a homeless person on the street unless I truly love God, my family, and my friends well - otherwise I'd be hypocritical.
What ROCKS/priorities will help you with relationships? What must you put down FIRST in your calendar and commitments?
TIME.
I need to set aside time for the important relationships in my life.
Time = Value
Time = Importance
Time = Love and Appreciation
What does time look like? For me (out side of a relationship with God which I mentioned in the previous post)
FAMILY
Open evenings with little planned with my family around.
Meal times together consistently
Vacations set through out the year - even a simple day trip counts
Serving each other when a need arises
Date night (if you're married or engaged)
FRIENDS
Friends night - people over for supper
Saying yes when friends invite you over
Available to help from time to time (within reason)
Activities together
NEIGHBORS
Outside porch with nothing to do but spontaneously talk to a neighbor or invite them to sit with you for a drink
Scheduling a dinner party or BBQ in advance
Available to help them from time to time
To keep these as ROCKS and not let them fill your life up too fast I suggest giving yourself some priorities
- Weekly Family Night
- 2-3 Nights with little planned
- Monthly Friends Night
- Monthly Date Night
- Yearly Vacation
- Periodic Day Trips
- join a small group at church
- commit to participating in your church's next potluck or social activity
- Monthly New Person Night (neighbor, new person at church, some needing company)
Of course that means letting some demands on you wait a few weeks. It means making sure these come 1st not last. It means, like all priorities in your life, saying yes to some means saying no to others.
WHAT OTHER WAYS DO YOU PUT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS FIRST? HOW HAVE YOU HAD TO SAY NO TO OTHER REQUESTS AS A RESULT? WHICH RELATIONSHIPS COME FIRST FOR YOU? HOW DO YOU BALANCE THE FAMILY/FRIEND/NEIGHBOR TENSION?
Thursday, January 06, 2011
Spiritual Rocks for 2011
Based on the previous post about making sure the ROCKS get into your bowl first - as you plan the year - or even your week, here's some thoughts on the SPIRITUAL ROCKS to get in place 1st to help you and me grow in our relationship with God.
Scripture.
Ya, of course. But consider. What other source do we have to help us understand God and his purpose for our lives.
Eugene Peterson said Christians are scripture shaped people. You can't understand or follow God's call in your life apart from Scripture.
ROCK #1 - read and prayerfully digest the scriptures
- read through a book at a time
- read through the whole bible
- don't try and read so fast, but just get through it, slowly absorbing it's story and message
Prayer.
Find whatever way is best for you to talk to God, and then take time to listen.
- walk
- get alone
- pray with friends
Community.
I can't read the New Testament and find a Christian who was isolated. Even the marginalized ones found other Christians to talk with, pray with, read the bible with, worship with, and serve with.
Your relationship with God is as much a team sport as it is your own individual responsibility.
Get connected with a local church; join a home group, worship with them on Sundays, serve the community together; jump into the community and grow together.
Scripture.
Ya, of course. But consider. What other source do we have to help us understand God and his purpose for our lives.
Eugene Peterson said Christians are scripture shaped people. You can't understand or follow God's call in your life apart from Scripture.
ROCK #1 - read and prayerfully digest the scriptures
- read through a book at a time
- read through the whole bible
- don't try and read so fast, but just get through it, slowly absorbing it's story and message
Prayer.
Find whatever way is best for you to talk to God, and then take time to listen.
- walk
- get alone
- pray with friends
Community.
I can't read the New Testament and find a Christian who was isolated. Even the marginalized ones found other Christians to talk with, pray with, read the bible with, worship with, and serve with.
Your relationship with God is as much a team sport as it is your own individual responsibility.
Get connected with a local church; join a home group, worship with them on Sundays, serve the community together; jump into the community and grow together.
Tuesday, January 04, 2011
ROCKS in your bowl (priorities)
A professor pulled out a bowl in his class... filled it with BIG ROCKS, and then asked the class - is it full.
The class said yes.
He then poured some gravel into the bowl - and they watched the gravel fill up in the spaces b/w the rocks.
Is if full?
He then poured some sand, which also fell b/w the spaces b/w the gravel.
Is it full?
Finally, he took a cup of water and poured it into the bowl, and slowly it made it's way into whatever cracks were left.
He then asked: IF I STARTED WITH THE WATER COULD WE HAVE FILLED THE BOWL UP?
Answer: NO
If you start with the small stuff, you won't have space for the big stuff.
A LESSON IN PRIORITIES:
What ROCKS need to get into your bowl first this year.
Psalm 1:3 says,
The Tree is healthy and productive b/c it's near the streams.
ITS LOCATION IS ESSENTIAL. THE STREAMS ARE THE BIG ROCKS.
Instead of merely charting goals (which are good); reflecting on areas you need to succeed in (which is also good), imagine placing our attention on what will nourish you.
As I set up my year: calendar, check book, relationships, evenings, rest, vacation, etc., WHAT WILL COME FIRST? WHAT ARE THE BIG ROCKS?
WHAT STREAMS WILL HELP YOU GROW AND BE FRUITFUL?
I'll post some thoughts on various areas of life over the next few days: spiritual, physical, financial, relational.
For now, start thinking about what streams - if any - are currently in your life?
The class said yes.
He then poured some gravel into the bowl - and they watched the gravel fill up in the spaces b/w the rocks.
Is if full?
He then poured some sand, which also fell b/w the spaces b/w the gravel.
Is it full?
Finally, he took a cup of water and poured it into the bowl, and slowly it made it's way into whatever cracks were left.
He then asked: IF I STARTED WITH THE WATER COULD WE HAVE FILLED THE BOWL UP?
Answer: NO
If you start with the small stuff, you won't have space for the big stuff.
A LESSON IN PRIORITIES:
What ROCKS need to get into your bowl first this year.
Psalm 1:3 says,
Blessed is the man who is like a tree planted besides streams of water, for it will bear fruit in season, and its leaves will not wither.
The Tree is healthy and productive b/c it's near the streams.
ITS LOCATION IS ESSENTIAL. THE STREAMS ARE THE BIG ROCKS.
Instead of merely charting goals (which are good); reflecting on areas you need to succeed in (which is also good), imagine placing our attention on what will nourish you.
As I set up my year: calendar, check book, relationships, evenings, rest, vacation, etc., WHAT WILL COME FIRST? WHAT ARE THE BIG ROCKS?
WHAT STREAMS WILL HELP YOU GROW AND BE FRUITFUL?
I'll post some thoughts on various areas of life over the next few days: spiritual, physical, financial, relational.
For now, start thinking about what streams - if any - are currently in your life?
Friday, December 31, 2010
2010 taught me...
This last year was one of growth and challenge for me. This was good, b/c 2009 was a real tough year for me - more challenges, hard learning, less growth (at least on the outside)
Looking back here are some highlights from 2010.
FAMILY TRIP UP THE WEST COAST
What a beautiful drive we had up the coast - seeing Newport, LA, Santa Monica, San Francisco, The Redwoods, Coos Bay, Seattle, and finally landing in beautiful Vancouver, BC - all by car.
I am extremely grateful for this trip b/c I got to see the beauty of the coast, the uniqueness of each city, and the joy of doing it all with my amazing family.
Lesson: there's beauty all over the world
WHISTLER CHURCH PLANTING RETREAT
This was another highlight b/c it was a very encouraging time for both my wife and I - it inspired to move forward in our vision of reaching Montreal with the gospel, and imagine that it was our first trip without our kids in 9 years. This was a blessing provided by a wonderful group of churches we get to partner with in Canada (CCMBC)
Lesson: take time to get refueled with your wife
A VERY GENEROUS YEAR WITH THE WESTSIDE GATHERING
Our church stretched financially in many ways this year. We gave away 20% of our June offerings split b/w a local church plant and aid to the Ukraine; we added funds to our Ukraine portion to reach 5000$ for a rehab project for men coming out of drug addiction. We held a special anniversary offering towards a future growth fund - and 35,000$ was pledged and donated. With all that going on we continued to move forward with our own local ministry and mission budget as well other local compassion efforts. God has been very faithful and shown us we can't out give him.
Lesson: you can't out give God
MY KIDS HAVE ESTABLISHED THEMSELVES IN A FRENCH SCHOOL
In their 2nd year in the french system my kids are really absorbing the french language and moving forward within that context. I'm soooo proud of them.
Lesson: we are able to adapt with some help and encouragement
WE WERE FORCED TO MAKE BUDGET CHANGES
With the growing needs of our family Franca and I hit a hurdle with our financial commitments. The needs went up. This really forced us to some make decisions so we could stick with our priorities: give, save, spend. In the past it seemed seemed like we were hitting those priorities with less effort. But life demanded more = more spending = serious choices. Proved that you must review your budget every 6-12 months, especially with a growing family that needs to eat and grow!! We also had to review our heart so we could stay committed to our financial priorities. Of course this taught us how faithful God is when you keep him first.
Lesson: can't out give God & let your priorities rule your decisions
LEADERSHIP AS A TEAM IS BETTER
For the first time in 7 years I felt Westside has been able to make more decisions as a team. This year we've seen more involvement and team effort. I've seen in it many of our teams, but I've experienced it personally in our leadership team. This fall we made some important steps forward - bringing our core into the process as well - and I felt the decisions rested on broader shoulders than just mine. Very Thankful.
Lesson: Church is a team sport... so is life, it's more fun with others.
MY WIFE AND FAMILY NEED ME
This is not a prideful statement. I realized more this year that if I'm going to live and lead well for the long haul, and if I'm going to keep my family first than I had to prioritize them with more intentionality. This Fall I've attempted to curb my nights out on average to 2 (unless we choose otherwise as a family). I pray I'll be growing more into this in 2011. I'm not there yet, but am making progress!
Lesson: let your priorities guide your calendar & you minister to the people in your home 1st
SOME BOOKS THAT I ENJOYED, BUT ALSO IMPACTED ME
Untamed by Alan & Deborah Hirsh was a great reminder of serious discipleship
When Helping Hurts gave me a better perspective on how to act when trying to alleviate poverty
Fields of Gold by Andy Stanley was a quick and inspiring reminder of how wonderful generosity is, yet how intentional it needs to be.
And by Hugh Halter and Matt Smay was such a refreshing book that gave me better words and meaning for why the church both gathers and scatters - most importantly numbers (large or small) are not the best measurement of success.
Exponential by Dave and Jon Ferguson was a fun read, while giving me new inspiration to see myself and our church multiply into the future.
Finally, JONAH, yes the Bible book, took me by surprise and drew me into it's story and message. I taught it over 4 weeks at Westside in November, but it challenged me regarding God's grace as much or more than anyone who was listening.
Lesson: I am a recipient of grace, God has called me to be a dispenser of it too.
Looking back here are some highlights from 2010.
FAMILY TRIP UP THE WEST COAST
What a beautiful drive we had up the coast - seeing Newport, LA, Santa Monica, San Francisco, The Redwoods, Coos Bay, Seattle, and finally landing in beautiful Vancouver, BC - all by car.
I am extremely grateful for this trip b/c I got to see the beauty of the coast, the uniqueness of each city, and the joy of doing it all with my amazing family.
Lesson: there's beauty all over the world
WHISTLER CHURCH PLANTING RETREAT
This was another highlight b/c it was a very encouraging time for both my wife and I - it inspired to move forward in our vision of reaching Montreal with the gospel, and imagine that it was our first trip without our kids in 9 years. This was a blessing provided by a wonderful group of churches we get to partner with in Canada (CCMBC)
Lesson: take time to get refueled with your wife
A VERY GENEROUS YEAR WITH THE WESTSIDE GATHERING
Our church stretched financially in many ways this year. We gave away 20% of our June offerings split b/w a local church plant and aid to the Ukraine; we added funds to our Ukraine portion to reach 5000$ for a rehab project for men coming out of drug addiction. We held a special anniversary offering towards a future growth fund - and 35,000$ was pledged and donated. With all that going on we continued to move forward with our own local ministry and mission budget as well other local compassion efforts. God has been very faithful and shown us we can't out give him.
Lesson: you can't out give God
MY KIDS HAVE ESTABLISHED THEMSELVES IN A FRENCH SCHOOL
In their 2nd year in the french system my kids are really absorbing the french language and moving forward within that context. I'm soooo proud of them.
Lesson: we are able to adapt with some help and encouragement
WE WERE FORCED TO MAKE BUDGET CHANGES
With the growing needs of our family Franca and I hit a hurdle with our financial commitments. The needs went up. This really forced us to some make decisions so we could stick with our priorities: give, save, spend. In the past it seemed seemed like we were hitting those priorities with less effort. But life demanded more = more spending = serious choices. Proved that you must review your budget every 6-12 months, especially with a growing family that needs to eat and grow!! We also had to review our heart so we could stay committed to our financial priorities. Of course this taught us how faithful God is when you keep him first.
Lesson: can't out give God & let your priorities rule your decisions
LEADERSHIP AS A TEAM IS BETTER
For the first time in 7 years I felt Westside has been able to make more decisions as a team. This year we've seen more involvement and team effort. I've seen in it many of our teams, but I've experienced it personally in our leadership team. This fall we made some important steps forward - bringing our core into the process as well - and I felt the decisions rested on broader shoulders than just mine. Very Thankful.
Lesson: Church is a team sport... so is life, it's more fun with others.
MY WIFE AND FAMILY NEED ME
This is not a prideful statement. I realized more this year that if I'm going to live and lead well for the long haul, and if I'm going to keep my family first than I had to prioritize them with more intentionality. This Fall I've attempted to curb my nights out on average to 2 (unless we choose otherwise as a family). I pray I'll be growing more into this in 2011. I'm not there yet, but am making progress!
Lesson: let your priorities guide your calendar & you minister to the people in your home 1st
SOME BOOKS THAT I ENJOYED, BUT ALSO IMPACTED ME
Untamed by Alan & Deborah Hirsh was a great reminder of serious discipleship
When Helping Hurts gave me a better perspective on how to act when trying to alleviate poverty
Fields of Gold by Andy Stanley was a quick and inspiring reminder of how wonderful generosity is, yet how intentional it needs to be.
And by Hugh Halter and Matt Smay was such a refreshing book that gave me better words and meaning for why the church both gathers and scatters - most importantly numbers (large or small) are not the best measurement of success.
Exponential by Dave and Jon Ferguson was a fun read, while giving me new inspiration to see myself and our church multiply into the future.
Finally, JONAH, yes the Bible book, took me by surprise and drew me into it's story and message. I taught it over 4 weeks at Westside in November, but it challenged me regarding God's grace as much or more than anyone who was listening.
Lesson: I am a recipient of grace, God has called me to be a dispenser of it too.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
it's not this easy
Got an email from this Christian publisher. They really do a great job at helping churches and families develop kids spiritually.
However, this email came with this line: Building a strong Christian family is easier than ever before...
really... easier... then ever before?
I'm sure their product is helpful, and they mean well, and I might even get it one day (maybe??). But I wonder if this kind of thinking just reminds me that we try and sell people the easiest path to some goal without 1. acknowledging that any path worth pursuing is hard work and 2. nothing of eternal value in our lives (i.e. spiritual growth) is possible without spirit infused gospel transformation.
As a parent and Christ-follower I believe a few things about spiritual growth:
- no one DRIFTS into it - it's always INTENTIONAL
- make sure the SPIRIT is the foundation of your INTENTIONALITY
- you can't do it ALONE - you need a COMMUNITY
- you won't grow without ABSORBING TRUTH (i.e. scripture)
- it takes a while - nothing comes overnight - so it's a PROCESS
- and when it comes to your kids specifically - the best approach is TEAMWORK - where the church and family work together to lead kids towards spiritual growth (some people are calling this ORANGE - the infusion of 2 wonderful colors that create Orange when combined)
For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come. (1 Timothy 4:8, see 4:6-10)
Sunday, October 24, 2010
When Crisis forces Flexibility and Creativity.
This morning the team at our church arrived to the school we rent for our Sunday gatherings to discover that it wasn't available for us. We confused dates for a cancellation by one week, officially we weren't allowed to be there.
This morning we had a musical guest leading most of the gathering.
After brainstorming and trying unsuccessful solutions, the school offered to let us use their gym - with no chairs, no use of shoes, a strict side entrance, and bathroom use only in the gym! (this would be ideal for afternoon prayer at the local mosque)
A normal Sunday gathering for us requires 1 large room + 4 small rooms for kids + open access to 1/2 the school + equipment.
With some opposition, we decided to go with the gym and make the best of it.
Here's what I learned from our forced situation:
1. sometimes a leader has to just decide and work with whoever commits
2. some people will have different opinions but will go with whatever is decided if we just decide
3. there will always be opposition in a decision - and that's ok - that's community
4. God is still present in less then ideal situations
5. most people go with the flow
6. you can spot the people who get bothered with change or expect environments to serve them rather than they serving the environment
- I was disappointed that some couldn't have a good time b/c they decided ahead of time that our set-up would not let them (due to kids, higher noise level, etc.)
- I was thrilled with many who had a great attitude and encouraged me that this was a great day!
7. surprise crisis's forces you to be flexible and creative - and discover what you really value
8. they also help you see what kind of community you really are - who pitches in, who complains, who celebrates, etc.
9. this morning helped me see that worship is from your heart not your environment
10. we would have missed out on lots of stuff if we would have canceled
- new guests searching for God and a church
- we celebrated a new fund in our church where people still contributed today
- people signed up for upcoming events where they will grow and connect with others
- lots more if I keep thinking
11. on a practical level I think the leader(s) need to communicate quickly and clearly to anyone who was going to be involved and how things are changing - I wonder if could have done that better for a few teams
To sum up my experience: I'm proud of our leaders, volunteers, and guests who for the most part fully engaged the environment and made the best of it. God was faithful and did lots in people's lives. I love my church.
This morning we had a musical guest leading most of the gathering.
After brainstorming and trying unsuccessful solutions, the school offered to let us use their gym - with no chairs, no use of shoes, a strict side entrance, and bathroom use only in the gym! (this would be ideal for afternoon prayer at the local mosque)
A normal Sunday gathering for us requires 1 large room + 4 small rooms for kids + open access to 1/2 the school + equipment.
With some opposition, we decided to go with the gym and make the best of it.
Here's what I learned from our forced situation:
1. sometimes a leader has to just decide and work with whoever commits
2. some people will have different opinions but will go with whatever is decided if we just decide
3. there will always be opposition in a decision - and that's ok - that's community
4. God is still present in less then ideal situations
5. most people go with the flow
6. you can spot the people who get bothered with change or expect environments to serve them rather than they serving the environment
- I was disappointed that some couldn't have a good time b/c they decided ahead of time that our set-up would not let them (due to kids, higher noise level, etc.)
- I was thrilled with many who had a great attitude and encouraged me that this was a great day!
7. surprise crisis's forces you to be flexible and creative - and discover what you really value
8. they also help you see what kind of community you really are - who pitches in, who complains, who celebrates, etc.
9. this morning helped me see that worship is from your heart not your environment
10. we would have missed out on lots of stuff if we would have canceled
- new guests searching for God and a church
- we celebrated a new fund in our church where people still contributed today
- people signed up for upcoming events where they will grow and connect with others
- lots more if I keep thinking
11. on a practical level I think the leader(s) need to communicate quickly and clearly to anyone who was going to be involved and how things are changing - I wonder if could have done that better for a few teams
To sum up my experience: I'm proud of our leaders, volunteers, and guests who for the most part fully engaged the environment and made the best of it. God was faithful and did lots in people's lives. I love my church.
Sunday, October 03, 2010
to see it in person
today the church I belong to celebrated 7 years. this is a really amazing thing.
I'm the founding pastor, but in no way can I take credit for what's happening within our community or in the lives of people there; God pursues us towards transformation!
today we celebrated by hearing some stories, worshiping, opening up the scriptures, taking communion, and sharing lunch together.
the stories we're my favorite part; I saw in person what our vision is calling us to become
a few years ago we put a stake in the ground and said we'd do our best to become the right kind of church - not the best, or coolest, or better-than-the-church-across town kind of church; but a church shaped by God's heart and the gospel
we discovered that our calling, outside of course of being on mission with God, was to be - in tangible witness - his living and local presence (i.e. missional)
today's stories helped me see that this is happening - in person - or persons
one couple shared about their involvement in our community and how's it's moved them to serve both in and through us - within our own teams and out in the community through a food bank; the main value they raised was being 'connected'
another women shared about her conviction to serve inmates - prisoners - and help them find God and a better life; through all kinds of obstacles she continues to go weekly to the prison and spend time with prisoners - in practical ways and also for bible study; she actually said she felt like she was God's living and local presence there; another value she raised was community
to see our message and calling in these 'persons' OR to see it in person is such a huge joy for me and my wife; it's like God is really transforming us into the kind of church he longs for us to be
if the next 7 years our pursuit of being God's living and local presence grows in deep and tangible ways, I can't imagine God blowing us away in how he stretches and uses us for his purposes.
I love my church. (ILMC)
I'm the founding pastor, but in no way can I take credit for what's happening within our community or in the lives of people there; God pursues us towards transformation!
today we celebrated by hearing some stories, worshiping, opening up the scriptures, taking communion, and sharing lunch together.
the stories we're my favorite part; I saw in person what our vision is calling us to become
a few years ago we put a stake in the ground and said we'd do our best to become the right kind of church - not the best, or coolest, or better-than-the-church-across town kind of church; but a church shaped by God's heart and the gospel
we discovered that our calling, outside of course of being on mission with God, was to be - in tangible witness - his living and local presence (i.e. missional)
today's stories helped me see that this is happening - in person - or persons
one couple shared about their involvement in our community and how's it's moved them to serve both in and through us - within our own teams and out in the community through a food bank; the main value they raised was being 'connected'
another women shared about her conviction to serve inmates - prisoners - and help them find God and a better life; through all kinds of obstacles she continues to go weekly to the prison and spend time with prisoners - in practical ways and also for bible study; she actually said she felt like she was God's living and local presence there; another value she raised was community
to see our message and calling in these 'persons' OR to see it in person is such a huge joy for me and my wife; it's like God is really transforming us into the kind of church he longs for us to be
if the next 7 years our pursuit of being God's living and local presence grows in deep and tangible ways, I can't imagine God blowing us away in how he stretches and uses us for his purposes.
I love my church. (ILMC)
Monday, August 09, 2010
Why learn from culture
Westside started a series last Sunday called AT THE MOVIES. We'll go through different popular movies this last year and see if they have anything to teach us. I.E. is there something in these movies that affirm how God is already trying to shape us through the scriptures.
I often wonder if that takes away from starting with the Bible?
But Phil. 4:8 helps us see that we must be able to discern when things affirm truth.
If God is real and if God is right, then he must be trying to affirm the kind of life he's created us for outside of just the scriptures. Though the scriptures are HIS word to us and our final authority when discerning other voices, I think it's important to know when other voices echo what God is trying to tell us.
Here's why I try to look for those affirmations:
1. they help me see that God speaks our language - b/c he loves us and wants to get our attention.
2. they help me see that the human heart searches for God - or the life he's created for us; so when we notice someone yearning for justice or purity or love - it affirms what the scriptures already tell us about how God created us in his image
3. messages that affirm God's truth in our culture help us connect people to God. if people could see some movie or song or poem they're excited about is echoing a message God has already been saying, this can help them see that God not only exists but that he's worth getting to know
I often wonder if that takes away from starting with the Bible?
But Phil. 4:8 helps us see that we must be able to discern when things affirm truth.
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
If God is real and if God is right, then he must be trying to affirm the kind of life he's created us for outside of just the scriptures. Though the scriptures are HIS word to us and our final authority when discerning other voices, I think it's important to know when other voices echo what God is trying to tell us.
Here's why I try to look for those affirmations:
1. they help me see that God speaks our language - b/c he loves us and wants to get our attention.
2. they help me see that the human heart searches for God - or the life he's created for us; so when we notice someone yearning for justice or purity or love - it affirms what the scriptures already tell us about how God created us in his image
3. messages that affirm God's truth in our culture help us connect people to God. if people could see some movie or song or poem they're excited about is echoing a message God has already been saying, this can help them see that God not only exists but that he's worth getting to know
Friday, April 02, 2010
Good Friday Links
Tonight is our church's Good Friday gathering - always a favorite gathering of mine b/c it's focus is solely on the cross.
Instead of writing my own reflection here's some things I've read this morning:
Mark 15
CRM's Reading for Lent (my favorite one, and most impacting)
Jesus Creed Good Friday Prayer
Don Miller's attempt at what Peter might have written following Jesus' death
Mark Driscoll's thoughts on the Cross
John Stackhouse's look at atonement (this one's good too)
Instead of writing my own reflection here's some things I've read this morning:
Mark 15
CRM's Reading for Lent (my favorite one, and most impacting)
Jesus Creed Good Friday Prayer
Don Miller's attempt at what Peter might have written following Jesus' death
Mark Driscoll's thoughts on the Cross
John Stackhouse's look at atonement (this one's good too)
Friday, February 26, 2010
church, a context for growth
Here's a post - a series you should follow - a series on Eugene Peterson's newest book.
I love Peterson's definition of the church here:
This strikes a chord for me this week as my church just reflected last week-end on what it means to Speak the Truth in Love to one another in community. The purpose of speaking truth in love to one another is maturity.
I love Peterson's affirmation that part of what it means to be part of the church is to be involved participants in a community that will shape you into the kind of person God designed you to be.
I love my church, not just b/c they are a great bunch of people and we get to do mission together, but b/c they shape me and remind me and support me in my process towards maturity.
I love Peterson's definition of the church here:
"Church is the textured context in which we grow up in Christ to maturity."
This strikes a chord for me this week as my church just reflected last week-end on what it means to Speak the Truth in Love to one another in community. The purpose of speaking truth in love to one another is maturity.
I love Peterson's affirmation that part of what it means to be part of the church is to be involved participants in a community that will shape you into the kind of person God designed you to be.
I love my church, not just b/c they are a great bunch of people and we get to do mission together, but b/c they shape me and remind me and support me in my process towards maturity.
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