singleness is a good thing

I think it's sad when people put marriage on a pedestal. I mean an unwarranted pedestal.

I'm married. I love my wife. I love my marriage. I'm fulfilled. YES.

Marriage is a good thing. It can be fulfilling. It's a lifetime vow when you make it. It's a gift. YES.

However, sometimes this gets said at the expense of SINGLES. Singleness is a valid vocation that should not be given 2nd place. It's a vocation that be temporary or permanent.

Perhaps, some are single and aren't getting married b/c they struggle with commitment or choosing wisely. Some are single b/c they don't want to settle for less than their vision. AND Some are single b/c they like it that way or choose it. (there are more reasons I'm sure)

That's why I like this POST by Scot McKnight summarizing Tim Keller's recent chapter on singleness in a book on Marriage.

If you're single and need some proper perspective, read the post. If you're married and seem to only see marriage as an option for your single friends, read it. The Goodness of Singleness.