Thursday, May 11, 2006

Neighbors

We moved into our neighborhood about 1 year ago. We came in intentionally wanting to connect with neighbors. We've stayed out a little longer on summer days/evenings. We've taken walks. We've let our kids play accross the street, and other kids come over. We've had some over for coffee.

However, today I'm reminded about what I can learn from my neighbors too.
We just got a card in our mailbox for our wedding anniversary from 2 neighbors accross from us (what sparked this recent blog). What a surprise! They thought of us. It's not just us making the effort, it's them too. Also, just last Sunday we got invited over a few houses down for afternoon desserts where we met even more people.

Did this just happen? I guess not. We've made some inraods in the last year (my wife much more then me): We've spent time outside talking, sharing, lending tools out, etc..

However, it goes to show you how open people can be to relationships. They hunger for connections - in a variety of ways - and are willing to make the effort as much or more then we might.

I'm thankful for my neighbors, and I hope somehow they become thankful for me too.

Jesus had some words for this in his great commandment (what the law and prophets hang on): love God... and love your neighbor as yourself. (Matt. 22).
Hope to fulfill this more fully everyday. I assume it at least starts with being a good neighbor.

Peace

What can you do on your block, apartment floor, or condo unit to start connecting with neighbors?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

more and more i see 'hospitality' as a huge part of the gospel message and the life lived in discipleship of jesus. thumbs up to you. i can't wait to meet my new neighbours...

David said...

it's been pretty fun on our end... although the area has lots to do with it... i find ours is pretty open to ocnnecting with neighbors... our old neihborhood wasn't as open / or less people hanging out outdoors maybe.
I'm surprized how much they're even doing for us - I'm the one feeling loved.
it's definitely a natural context for the gospel - so relational.